George Dunstin Pears

1912 - 1990

George was the son of Winfred and Maud Pears. George was schooled in Madura and later at Udyar in Madras. He started his career on South Indian Railways, and ended it as an 'A' grade driver in Villupuram. He loved to drive steam engines and declined promotions to office jobs. He was a railwayman through and through. He married Muriel Wood in 1930. (see Muriel later). During his time in Villupuram he was President of the Anglo Indian Association and loved the functions it organised. He loved dancing and would be seen on the floor most of the night. George took early retirement from the railways and came to England where he worked with the Inland Revenue at Hammersmith. He lived in Wimbledon. then Morden and finally settled in Addiscombe Surrey. He was a proud man with lots of jocularity. He enjoyed his grandchildren and greatgrandchildren. He died very suddenly on 28th August 1990 and his ashes are at rest at Greenlawns, Warlingham, Surrey.

Muriel Margaret Pears
1912-2001

Muriel was born on 12th April 1912, the daughter of Francis and Caroline Wood. She was convent educated (Tangaserry, Kerala and later Madura). She acquired a very simple but very strong faith; and developed a great devotion to Our Blessed Lady; and made regular pilgrimages to Lourdes, Fatima, Aylesford, Walsingham and Rome despite her advancing years.
Muriel was married at 18 to George; and together they raised 4 sons and 1 daughter. All 5, when at secondary school age, were sent to Catholic Boarding Schools. You can imagine the sacrifices that had to be made considering the financial implications of this. Quite an achievment.
She not only helped her children get a sound education but also laid a deep foundation for theirs and their children and grandchildren’s faith.
Muriel was a very determined lady with a very strong will; and most of the time she wore her heart on her sleeve. She showed tremendous courage in the face of adversity. She even made a trip to India in her 85th year to attend a grandchild’s wedding and to meet with family and old friends. We have wonderful memories of her grace and pleasure that she showed when given a surprise party for her 80th birthday. It was a marvellous family occasion with Audrey joining us from India.
She was extremely charitable, even to ordering an extra lunch each day for a less fortunate guest who was invited to join the family at table. Three such ladies benefited reqularly and became like family members.
Muriel joined Flo’s Mum and helped Duncan & Flo through a deep crisis when they lost their baby Rita in 1960 though she was hundreds of miles away at the time.
Muriel & George came to England in 1961where she adapted very quickly to life in the UK, especially with regard to cooking family meals and housework, things she was not at all familiar with because these were previously done for her by others.
As a young wife and mother she and George enjoyed ballroom dancing; and attended balls regularly until family commitments took over.
When George passed away rather suddenly in 1990, much to everybody’s surprise, Muriel decided to live on alone in their home, and coped admirably until October 1995 when she had a severe stroke; and was given just a few hours to live; but recovered almost completely in 2 months.
However, she was realistic enough to know that she could cope no longer on her own but needed 24hr monitoring as she was also a diabetic. She deliberated for some time and then expressed her wish to go to a Catholic Nursing Home. A place was found for her at Wickham Court Nursing Home where she spent quality time and 5 very happy years. She endeared herself to the staff, inspite of the ocassional tantrum.
Until quite recently her memory was second to none. She was a mine of information with regard to family history and had instant recall of all birthdays, anniversaries, relationships etc. This showed the importance she placed on the family and this source of information will be greatly missed.
Muriel dearly loved her children, her 13 grandchildren and 23 great grand children; and they reciprocated. Muriel’s passing must be the end of an era for her large family.